Surrender

Surrender (Merriam-Webster)

: to give oneself up into the power of another : yield

Look up quotes about surrender and you will find that 98% of them are of the “never surrender…never give up” variety. While that axiom is important in reminding us to keep going during times of struggle, it also holds up back from true healing. Consider this:

When we are tired and feel like we need to keep going, we deny ourselves a chance to rest. We are praised for our strength.

When we are sad or grieving, we feel the need to compartmentalize and to keep moving rather than feel our feelings. We are praised for our fortitude.

When we struggle with pain and adversity, we feel the need to trust in a higher purpose and keep fighting the good fight. We are praised as warriors.